9 Tips on Spending time with your kids

So I have a problem. Normally I have a 3 year old and a 5 year old home during the day (When its not summer!). Sometimes I sit and play games on my phone while the kids are watching a movie. I don’t want to do this anymore, I want to spend as much time with them as I can. I know I am not the only one who has this problem, as I have read it on multiple blogs. I want to post some ideas on how to work on this.

1. When your kids are taking a nap, Try to use that time to finish your chores, return calls/ txts, play on the phone, watch tv, etc.

2. DO NOT try to hurry your kids to bed so you can get that extra time watching a show. Take your time reading them a book, and tucking them in.

3. While they are awake try to spend time with them. Play games, go outside. If you really need to clean your house, include them and give them small jobs to do.

4. Try to stay away from the TV, computer, phone etc. Try to not let them do any of those things either.

5. Keep your phone in your bedroom or on the charger. So it is close enough you can get to it if it starts ringing, but not close enough where you have temptations to play games or text.

6. Get a passcode on your phone/tablet so your kids cannot get on it without asking.

7. Play ‘Brain working’ games and play outside often with your kids.

8. I do not let my kids (Any of them) watch Spongebob SquarePants. I know that may be harsh but there a real study where kids who did watch That show got worse testing scores than kids who didn’t 🙂

9. Talk to your kids. Get to know whats going on in their lifes. You may think you know, but there are always things you don’t know.

So there are my tips. What are yours? Comment!


2 comments on “9 Tips on Spending time with your kids

  1. I respect your desire to “unplug,” but I think there is some value in giving kids a little space (wrote about this just the other day: http://joyandwoe.wordpress.com/2012/07/13/heres-your-amen/). But I often think I should disconnect for my own sanity — I could do without the electronic tether. 🙂

    • Yes, I do not want to be around them every second, they do need their space. But I do not want them watching tv all day
      While I play on my phone. My son (3) is a mama’s boy and he however hates it when I touch my phone. I want my children to go play with friends too.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: